Wednesday, June 18, 2008
Let's Talk About Sex Instead...
I remember reading in a magazine article one day that people rather share details about their sex lives than their financial standings. Maybe it’s because we all think we can improve our sex lives much easier than our income or spending habits. Perhaps it’s easier to exaggerate our sex lives than how much money is in the bank. Or maybe we’ve all been subconsciously convinced that money is something evil.
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'Let's Talk About Sex Instead...'
Saturday, June 07, 2008
The Big Five-Oh For Prince
Can you believe The Artist Currently Known As Prince turns 50 years old today! He's still cranking out albums every year. Remember Charlie Murphy's true story about when he met Prince on the Dave Chappelle Show?
Wednesday, May 14, 2008
Celebrating a 30-Who-Cares-How-Old-Year-Old's Birthday
People, people...
As most of you already know, I'm celebrating my birthday this Saturday, May 17, at Zanzibar on the Waterfront. I'll be there early [around 9:00 pm] for my people planning on coming out early to get home early. I'll be there around the time they open the doors, but I'm closing down the bar so no need to rush.
I sent out Evites. If you didn't get it, check your spam/bulk trash folder.
There will be a live performance by Emeline Michel, a Haitian performer with an African-Caribbean sound, on the first floor. Second floor is the usual hip hop, rap, reggae, soul and my favorite — go go. The cost is $25 at the door.
Dress code: Give them a call at (202) 554-9100, but last time I went, jeans were cool, no sneaks, no boots, no athletic gear and no head gear.
Around midnight we will meet up on The Deck. The entrance to The Deck is on the second floor. This way my people can meet the rest of my people and it gives me a chance to say "hey" and "thank you" to everyone. If you smoke stogies, bring 'em.
The club is in walking distance to the Waterfront Metro Station on the green line. There's plenty of parking in the area. If you get there early you might find free parking on the street. If not, I have no idea how much it costs. The address is 700 Water Street SW.
Be sure to RSVP on the Evite so I know to look for you. If you need me to resend it, just email me. Otherwise, I'll see you Saturday.
As most of you already know, I'm celebrating my birthday this Saturday, May 17, at Zanzibar on the Waterfront. I'll be there early [around 9:00 pm] for my people planning on coming out early to get home early. I'll be there around the time they open the doors, but I'm closing down the bar so no need to rush.
I sent out Evites. If you didn't get it, check your spam/bulk trash folder.
There will be a live performance by Emeline Michel, a Haitian performer with an African-Caribbean sound, on the first floor. Second floor is the usual hip hop, rap, reggae, soul and my favorite — go go. The cost is $25 at the door.
Dress code: Give them a call at (202) 554-9100, but last time I went, jeans were cool, no sneaks, no boots, no athletic gear and no head gear.
Around midnight we will meet up on The Deck. The entrance to The Deck is on the second floor. This way my people can meet the rest of my people and it gives me a chance to say "hey" and "thank you" to everyone. If you smoke stogies, bring 'em.
The club is in walking distance to the Waterfront Metro Station on the green line. There's plenty of parking in the area. If you get there early you might find free parking on the street. If not, I have no idea how much it costs. The address is 700 Water Street SW.
Be sure to RSVP on the Evite so I know to look for you. If you need me to resend it, just email me. Otherwise, I'll see you Saturday.
Friday, May 02, 2008
What Type of Hugger Are You?
About a year ago at AppleOne, we had an office coordinator by the name of Camille Richie. Cool girl from Florida, degreed in sign language and crazy as all out. How did someone with a degree in sign language and a desire to become a sign language interpreter (which she eventually became, quitting AppleOne) become our OC? Who knows and who cares.Anyway, while she was at AppleOne, she sent out an email about the different types of huggers people are. I remember many years ago a friend of mine, Chanda Torres, said my hugs weren't genuine because in the process, I'd pat her on the back as opposed to embraced her. My bad. I didn't know there were so many different types of hugs out there.
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'What Type of Hugger Are You?'
Monday, March 31, 2008
Getting Caught Up -- For Now
Wow, where did the time go? This past month flew past, as I've been in transition, from the j-o-b [I got a new j-o-b downtown DC], my living arrangements [Still working on that] and mourning the end of The Wire.Ok, really the cable/Internet is turned off. It's on at the new place, but I haven't figured out when I'll finally move in, so I'm squeezing a minute in at work. I appreciate everyone who has asked what happened; people actually read my ramblings? It's still going to be a minute before I can get back on the grind with it.
But just to review the past several weeks, Devin and his wife Afiya invited me to campaign in Ohio for Obama with them back in February. DC for Obama, an organization supporting Obama [I know, obviously!], went three buses deep. I think there were maybe 300-400 people just from DC volunteering.
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'Getting Caught Up -- For Now'
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
The Seed of Adversity

"There is no better than adversity. Every defeat, every heartbreak, every loss, contains its own seed, its own lesson on how to improve your performance the next time."
— Malcolm X
Monday, February 11, 2008
Who's The Victim in The Wire's Last Season?
For the past several years, the most captivating show on TV has been HBO's The Wire. It's better than "24." And "American Idol." And whatever else is out there. Not only is it entertainment, it's uncut, unfiltered, about as real as people get and it's based on not only the city of Baltimore, but the issues facing American cities everyday.Recently there was a cover story in the City Paper about the show, but it's not a raving review. Instead it questions why The Wire isn't the same show it was when we first learned about it. Writer Mark Athitakis goes into details about why the final season of The Wire, when we're expecting a lot of questions to be answered and more shockers [like the death of Prop Joe], is turning out to betray the viewers just as everyone in the show seems to be betraying everyone else.
Monday, February 11, 2008
The First Victory Speech of Many
With the polls showing Barack Obama the favorite to win the "Potomac Primaries" tomorrow, he will be the front-runner for the Democratic nomination, currently trailing Hillary Clinton by only 27 delegates [1148 to 1127]. He swept her over the weekend [winning in Louisiana, Nebraska, Washington (state), the U.S. Virgin Islands and Maine] and beat her in 20 of the 31 states/territories that have already voted.
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'The First Victory Speech of Many'
Friday, February 08, 2008
Remembering Why We Vote
As we prepare for the primaries here in the DC region, here's a little reminder of why we're voting. Thanks to my homegirl Johanne St. Leger for sending this reminder to me...
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'Remembering Why We Vote'
Friday, February 08, 2008
I Didn't Know Denzel Was Stephen Biko
After reading The Fate of Africa
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'I Didn't Know Denzel Was Stephen Biko'
Wednesday, February 06, 2008
Sacred Arts Saturday: Part II

If you missed the debut Sacred Arts Saturday event, shame on me for not reiterating that it was the spot to be. But if you miss the second one this Saturday, shame on you for I am reiterating right now that you don't want to be the only one not there.
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'Sacred Arts Saturday: Part II'
Wednesday, February 06, 2008
Peace Without Freedom?

"You can't separate peace from freedom because no one can be at peace unless he has his freedom."
— Malcolm X
Wednesday, February 06, 2008
Yes, We Can!
Thanks to Daz for finding this video [If you subscribe to the blog and get this in your email, you may have to click on this link to view the video]:
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'Yes, We Can!'
Friday, February 01, 2008
Toni Morrison's Endorsement Letter to Senator Barack Obama
The same woman who apparently said Bill Clinton was our "first black president" is endorsing Barak Obama for president. But Toni Morrison isn't so naive and simple that it's because he's a black candidate. In her endorsement letter, she poetically and strongly gives her reasons behind endorsing Senator Barak Obama:
Dear Senator Obama,
This letter represents a first for me--a public endorsement of a Presidential candidate. I feel driven to let you know why I am writing it. One reason is it may help gather other supporters; another is that this is one of those singular moments that nations ignore at their peril. I will not rehearse the multiple crises facing us, but of one thing I am certain: this opportunity for a national evolution (even revolution) will not come again soon, and I am convinced you are the person to capture it.
May I describe to you my thoughts?
I have admired Senator Clinton for years. Her knowledge always seemed to me exhaustive; her negotiation of politics expert. However I am more compelled by the quality of mind (as far as I can measure it) of a candidate. I cared little for her gender as a source of my admiration, and the little I did care was based on the fact that no liberal woman has ever ruled in America. Only conservative or "new-centrist" ones are allowed into that realm. Nor do I care very much for your race[s]. I would not support you if that was all you had to offer or because it might make me "proud."
In thinking carefully about the strengths of the candidates, I stunned myself when I came to the following conclusion: that in addition to keen intelligence, integrity and a rare authenticity, you exhibit something that has nothing to do with age, experience, race or gender and something I don't see in other candidates. That something is a creative imagination which coupled with brilliance equals wisdom. It is too bad if we associate it only with gray hair and old age. Or if we call searing vision naivete. Or if we believe cunning is insight. Or if we settle for finessing cures tailored for each ravaged tree in the forest while ignoring the poisonous landscape that feeds and surrounds it. Wisdom is a gift; you can't train for it, inherit it, learn it in a class, or earn it in the workplace--that access can foster the acquisition of knowledge, but not wisdom.
When, I wondered, was the last time this country was guided by such a leader? Someone whose moral center was un-embargoed? Someone with courage instead of mere ambition? Someone who truly thinks of his country's citizens as "we," not "they"? Someone who understands what it will take to help America realize the virtues it fancies about itself, what it desperately needs to become in the world?
Our future is ripe, outrageously rich in its possibilities. Yet unleashing the glory of that future will require a difficult labor, and some may be so frightened of its birth they will refuse to abandon their nostalgia for the womb.
There have been a few prescient leaders in our past, but you are the man for this time.
Good luck to you and to us.
Toni Morrison
This letter represents a first for me--a public endorsement of a Presidential candidate. I feel driven to let you know why I am writing it. One reason is it may help gather other supporters; another is that this is one of those singular moments that nations ignore at their peril. I will not rehearse the multiple crises facing us, but of one thing I am certain: this opportunity for a national evolution (even revolution) will not come again soon, and I am convinced you are the person to capture it.
May I describe to you my thoughts?
I have admired Senator Clinton for years. Her knowledge always seemed to me exhaustive; her negotiation of politics expert. However I am more compelled by the quality of mind (as far as I can measure it) of a candidate. I cared little for her gender as a source of my admiration, and the little I did care was based on the fact that no liberal woman has ever ruled in America. Only conservative or "new-centrist" ones are allowed into that realm. Nor do I care very much for your race[s]. I would not support you if that was all you had to offer or because it might make me "proud."
In thinking carefully about the strengths of the candidates, I stunned myself when I came to the following conclusion: that in addition to keen intelligence, integrity and a rare authenticity, you exhibit something that has nothing to do with age, experience, race or gender and something I don't see in other candidates. That something is a creative imagination which coupled with brilliance equals wisdom. It is too bad if we associate it only with gray hair and old age. Or if we call searing vision naivete. Or if we believe cunning is insight. Or if we settle for finessing cures tailored for each ravaged tree in the forest while ignoring the poisonous landscape that feeds and surrounds it. Wisdom is a gift; you can't train for it, inherit it, learn it in a class, or earn it in the workplace--that access can foster the acquisition of knowledge, but not wisdom.
When, I wondered, was the last time this country was guided by such a leader? Someone whose moral center was un-embargoed? Someone with courage instead of mere ambition? Someone who truly thinks of his country's citizens as "we," not "they"? Someone who understands what it will take to help America realize the virtues it fancies about itself, what it desperately needs to become in the world?
Our future is ripe, outrageously rich in its possibilities. Yet unleashing the glory of that future will require a difficult labor, and some may be so frightened of its birth they will refuse to abandon their nostalgia for the womb.
There have been a few prescient leaders in our past, but you are the man for this time.
Good luck to you and to us.
Toni Morrison
Tuesday, January 29, 2008
Back to the Big Apple!
This past weekend the fellas and I rolled up to New York and just kicked it. Eric, Mike and I caught the express bus [we didn't do the Chinatown buses; we rode the new "high end" bus out of Dupont Circle], caught up with Chad and Mark and did New York.We winged it the entire time, going up there with no agenda. What happens happens. The highlight was the live band at Groove in The Village. Especially the rendition of Prince's Purple Rain. And they had a singer [didn't catch her name] who ripped the mic!
Afterwards, we mainly hung out at Pinch meeting some interesting people. One was Rick, a former NYPD Lt who now is a security consultant. He explained to us why our Timberlands were keeping us out of nearl every club and it's pretty useless trying to get in anyway with five guys rolling as a crew.
No worries. We made the most of it. We eventually made it in at sunrise to Chad's pad in Yonkers. You can check out the rest of the photos here.
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