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Skins Headed to the Playoffs!

Redskins vs. Cowboys

Two $44 nosebleed tickets — $360
Two drinks and a hot dog — $18
Two ponchos because of the rain — $17

Watching the Redskins beat the Cowboys and make the playoffs? Priceless!

Welcome to the World of Staffing

Ok, maybe this isn’t going to be humorous to everyone, especially if you’re one of my candidates, but my homeboy Daz sent me this email a while ago that almost gives a clear idea of what it is that we do here at the recruiting agency. Well, it’s a tiny bit exaggerated, but you’ll get the point…

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No Debate Over Another Great Denzel Movie

Denzel Washington in The Great DebatersThis Christmas I went to see The Great Debaters, a movie not only about a debate team from a small black school in Texas, but racism, relationships of all forms, establishing worker’s unions and so forth. Not usually the one to do feel good movies, I was impressed with the movie, just as I was Denzel’s other feel good movie, Remember the Titans.

Hoping not to give away too much of the movie, Denzel’s character, Melvin Tolson, assembles four unassuming and unique individuals to be Wiley College’s debate team. From the very beginning, they start crushing other debate teams going on a win streak that starts to gain national attention. Eventually, they are invited to compete against a Harvard team which culminates not so much in another debate with a powerhouse team but a group of individuals who have to overcome personal internal problems, social lifestyle issues and a host of other challenges to get to where they are.

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Category: Movies, TV and Movies

Christmas in New York

What better to do than a day trip to New York?

Christmas in New York 2007

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The Mauling of Waterside Mall

Waterside Mall of Washington DC being demolished

 

As I stood at the corner of 4th and M Streets SW, I took this photo of what will soon be history. When I moved here I’d walk to the only business open inside Waterside Mall — the CVS. Or I’d cut through the mall to get to the other side where everyone who lived over there seemed less like neighbors and more like another community though we were only a superblock away. But already DC is changing right before my eyes as we all wait and see what’s going to happen to the Safeway, what new businesses will move to the area and if they’ll connect 4th Street to make neighbors neighbors again.

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How Many Ingredients Make a Twinkie?

TwinkiesWhen I was younger, being the naive child I was, I couldn’t figure out how they got the cream inside of a Twinkie. I mean, how do you bake a cake around the filling?

Today, though, the curiosity is less about how they got the cream inside the spongy cake but more about what in the hell is the cream? And if it is a cake, how come it lasts so long on the supermarket shelves?

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Going Green Starting to Create “Eco-Anxiety”

Mountain DewAnyone who knows me knows that Mountain Dew is pretty much the only soda I drink. Unless, of course, I need a mixer with my cognac. When it’s time to take out the trash each night, it’s not uncommon to see several green cans piled up with the rest of whatever I cooked that night. That is, until recently.

Tossing an empty can of Dew into the trash can, as I’ve done for the past couple of decades, I started to feel a tinge of shame. I resumed reading the Washington Post, but my mind couldn’t shake the thought of te little green can waiting to be buried in a landfill somewhere. This time, my conscience got to me. I returned to the kitchen, dug the green can out the trash and separated it to be recycled.

Eco-anxiety?

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Thanksgiving in Charleston SC

My mom and I rolled down to Charleston, SC, to hang out with my brother and his family. It had been a minute since I’ve seen him, and may be the last time for a minute since it’s looking like his next stop is Italy.

While there we canoed [or whatever the boat was called] Cypress Gardens, a famous swamp where movies have been shot including a scenes from “The Patriot,” checked out a butterfly house and hung out near the beach.

Thanksgiving 2007

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Meeting Messengers in the Darkness

I remember back in the day when a girl I was dating and I were on our last leg of the relationship. It was during a turbulent time in my life: the loss of my place, the loss of my j-o-b and a plethora of other unwelcoming events rolled up into one big nightmare of a situation.

Talking to her mother one night, she made a comment that has stuck with me since. Many people have heard many variations of the same concept, but it was enlightening to me. It had to do with relationships, but also, it had to do with expectations of people we meet in general and why we meet in the first place.

As I stumbled in what seemed to be a perpetual darkness surrounding me and my every thought, I had a difficult time embracing the concept. I couldn’t seem to find my way out of the darkness because I couldn’t figure out which way I needed to go. I was trapped, lost and couldn’t see the end of the tunnel.

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Running Into Aggies in DC

I’ve always heard DC was a small city. You’ll run into people you know randomly. Path cross frequently, even more so if you’re a Metro rider. And then one day riding the escalator at Eastern Market Metro, I passed D Nash, a fellow Aggie I haven’t seen since I left North Carolina A&T.

We didn’t even know we each were in DC. And then, he invites me to a pot luck, and even more Aggies! I knew Zuleika Smith and Carl Williams at A&T and had no idea they were in DC either. Nothing makes moving to a new city better than surprisingly running into your people…

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D Nash (left), another Aggie whose name I forgot already and Carl Williams

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Toast to a 1977 Classic — Erica Jones

Erica Jones about to blow out the candles to her birthday cake

 

I was invited Friday night to another birthday party, celebrating the big three-oh! for Erica. We were at Tabaq Bistro on U Street where they were playing some old school jams [a good mix of Prince and Michael Jackson included] and even giving out free Grey Goose drinks later in the night.

Toast to a '77 Classic

Celebrating Erica Jones' 30th birthday at Tabaq on U Street in Washington DC.

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Failure Is The Beginning To Success

I was conducting a search the other day for something and came across a website that listed “Five Reasons Why People Fail.” I only glanced at it as I continued to look for whatever it was that I was looking for.

And then out of the blue last night, one of the paragraphs I read, specifically the first sentence, settled in. It was enlightenment:

They see failure as the end instead of the beginning. As with the above point most failures fall down and find that it was such a terrible experience that they now go out of their way to avoid going through such an experience ever again. If only they realized that by falling they actually fell forward meaning they were at least moving that one step closer to their eventual goal. To succeed is not so much a matter of whether you failed somewhere along the line or not but whether you got up stronger for it and carried on.

The idea of failure being the beginning of reaching your goals instead of an end result is simple, but it’s a potent one. If everything you did you kept that concept in mind, every time you “failed,” you’d probably feel empowered about yourself because you’re now one step closer to completing your goal because you now at least know one way not to go about it.

Category: Glass Half Full

Meeting a Neighbor Still Living in Fear

After a pretty good week of work, I finally return home on a rainy Friday evening. Home sweet home. Back to my abode. Mi casa. The place I lay my head in comfort.

Since my mom is staying with me and there’s only one set of keys, I have to call her to let her know I’m downstairs to get through the front door. It’s a mid-rise and the doors are locked requiring a magnetic key to get in. But every now and again, one of my hundreds of neighbors is also just arriving home and I can get in with them.

Not today. Every now and again people react to seeing a BlacKorean man as if it’s the 50s and I’m a threat.

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Category: Just Babbling

Happy Birthday to “2-3″

Mike “2-3″ Jackson came up from the Queen City to hang out for his birthday. Some friends came through as I was moving into my new pad…

 

The Weather Channel Comes to Town

Chad McKelvey and David GainesYears ago while living in Greensboro, NC, attending [well, more like enrolled] North Carolina A&T State University, I went to The Register House, a little building on campus where we ran the campus newspaper. Sitting there, with a friend of his, was some dude who had nothing to do with the newspaper, just lounging at The House.

Ever since, Chad McKelvey and I became boys. And almost 10 years later, here we are in Washington, DC, lounging the way we did in Greensboro. He and his co-worker, Tatiana [is that how you spell it?], were in town shooting a story for The Weather Channel. He mans the truck, the editing, the filming, the driving and anything else that needs to be done. She gets all the fame, sort of, as the reporter you see on The Weather Channel. Well, she is cuter than Chad. More like, she’s cute. No offense Chad.

Tatiana and David GainesThey have one of those j-o-b-s which you almost won’t believe is a j-o-b. Whenever there is a weather-related story to be told, they’re there. All over the east coast. Driving a satellite truck. Or in the case of the hurricane that hit Jamaica, Chad had to fly out there to get some footage.

While in New York for my homeboy Devin’s wedding, Chad gets a phone call saying he has to be in Chicago in hours because whoever does the same thing in Chicago, well, he called in sick. And as soon as he came back a few days later, he had to head to Philadelphia. They have traveled from New York to New Orleans covering everything.

And every now and again, they have something here in Washington, DC.

Congratulations to Afiya and Devin!

Devin Johnson and Afiya McLaughlin-Johnson

Photo by Pavel Byles. You can see the rest of his photos of the wedding and more at Pav.

Congratulations to Devin Johnson and Afiya McLaughlin-Johnson!

There’s so much to tell about my trip to New York for Devin’s wedding that I don’t even know where to start. The obvious would be to start with the wedding. Absolutely beautiful. Devin and Afiya’s vows for each other were touching, even to a non-holy-matrimony-minded individual such as myself.

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The Jacksons at the Lincoln Memorial

My homeboy Mike came through with his sons, and we took a late night stroll across the National Mall. We landed at the Lincoln Memorial…

 

Photos From Baltimore Aquarium

Baltimore Aquarium

My homeboy Mike Jackson, better known as 2-3, came up this weekend, and we took a little trip up to the Baltimore Aquarium with some of his people. Interesting place. I’ve been by it before, read about it, but never actually visited it. I did visit the Washington DC National Aquarium, but I know some pet shops with better displays than there.

Well, the Baltimore Aquarium is an aquarium, so there’s not much to write about it. There are a lot of aquatic animals. There are some land animals. And there’s a bunch of little kids running around so watch your step. It’s a lot bigger than I imagined. From the outside, it doesn’t seem like it would have as much as it did. Granted I haven’t visited the Georgia Aquarium yet, the largest in the country, if not the world, though it’s in a landlocked city.

Baltimore Aquarium

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An Impromptu Cookout

Whenever Mike’s in town, I’m not sure if you can call it an unplanned cookout. Mike always wants to cookout! So, since my mom is in town and she loves to cook, why not call over some friends and fire up the grill. Devin and Tiffany came through and coincidentally my homeboy Desmond was also in town with his son and lady…

 

Nationals’ Baseball Stadium is Coming Along

Washington Nationals Stadium under constructionReturning from Ft. Meade yesterday where my mom wanted to shop at the commissary, we went by the Washington Nationals’ new baseball stadium being built right around the corner from the pad. And it’s still amazing to see an area which was nothing more than an after thought in DC being transformed into an area which will probably rival some of DC’s other hot spots for entertainment, shopping and whatever else comes with economic development.

The stadium is just a skeleton right now, surrounded by a gang of cement trucks, building supplies and a run-down looking environment. But on opening day next year, I’m sure the area as we know it now will just be a distant memory.

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Visiting Post-Fire Eastern Market

When I first moved to Washington, DC, I found a place in Capitol Hill right around the corner from Eastern Market, the 100+ year old open market. There you would find fresh poultry, produce, flowers, arts & crafts, meats and a ton of other stuff. My mom’s first visit their caught her off guard when all she wanted was some syrup. We found some for $7 a bottle. Pure syrup, though.

Well, in one night, the place has been transformed and we may never get it back in its original form. A fire completely gutted the structure:

Eastern Market after the fire

Eastern Market after the fire

The Most Precious Perishable Of All Time

Father TimeWho? Me?

Preach?

When have I ever preached to anyone? And if so, is there anything wrong with it?

I was hanging out with some friends of mine and just when I was getting started with one of those thoughtful little quips I so eagerly love to throw out at people, Pailin Phersayaphai, my Thai friend, warned everyone I was about to get to preaching.

Orlando and Lundy Khoy, my Cambodian friends, probably were bracing themselves for another lecture from me, but I decided to keep it short, keep it quick. But now, well, I’m going to elaborate a little.

[By the way, "congrats" and "best wishes" to Pailin and Orlando on finally figuring what we all already knew — you both have hormones and make each other's active.]

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Leading, Not Following

We always hear our trainers say something to the degree of “puking on the prospect.” It’s also known as the scenario of disaster. It’s when you talk too much when recruiting a prospect.

There’s an understanding in sales that says, the one who asks the questions is the one who’s in control. If you find yourself answering more questions than you’re asking then you are losing control of the sale. But just asking questions isn’t enough. Questions have to be asked in a methodical and logical order to get the prospect to answer your questions in a way to lead them to confirm this is a worthy opportunity for them.

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Category: Sales

How Well Do Your Eyes Listen?

The Science of Eye Contact

 

Every now and again I’ll post something about sales. It’s skill set developed that pays my bills, so if I can help anyone else help pay their bills…

I’m gonna start off light, but introduce something pretty simple to execute, crucial to close a sale and devastatingly lethal when mastered so it becomes a natural habit. It’s such a ridiculously simple task to complete and has the potential to completely affect the direction of the interaction with a potential client.

Allow me to begin with a li’l story…

A research team was conducting an experiment on eye contact and its power. [No, the moral of the story is not going to be as simple as to just make eye contact. Well, maybe it is, but as you read why, you may understand a bit better the impact you can have on controlling the atmosphere of the engagement.]

So, these experts gathered a plethora of volunteers for the study…

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Category: Sales

A Primer in Recruiting

Recruiting follows the same principles of selling. The only way anyone is going to buy [or be recruited] is if they see value, as James Stephens mentioned in his training. But a lot of times recruiters don’t understand the meaning of value or misunderstand what sales is all about.

I’ve always trained my sales staff that the definition of sales is: Providing a solution for a client’s needs, wants and desires.

So, the biggest key to sales/recruiting is identifying that need, want and desire. In that order. Just because someone needs more money doesn’t mean they’ll go get it. Do you realize how many people complain about being underpaid and never look for better opportunities? Just because someone says they want a better job, or need a raise, or anything like that which would make working harder or smarter a no-brainer, people are not that smart. Needs are based off logic. There’s nothing sexy about doing something for the need of it. People would sacrifice providing for needs if they have to work harder for it or actually put any extra effort into it.

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Category: Sales

Wizards, Cavaliers and a Giant

Gheorghe Muresan, Devin Johnson and David GainesAfter Caron Butler and Gilbert Arenas went down just before the season ended, let’s just say all we could hope for was at least one victory. I mean, the Wizards went from leading the Southeastern conference to backing into the playoffs.

Of course everyone is predicting a sweep, including me, but it wouldn’t be Washington without optimism of a miracle. No such thing this evening, but perhaps in game four.

While at the game, though, Gheorghe Muresan stopped by the suite to say hey to everyone. You read about how tall he is [NBA's tallest player ever], but once you stand next to the giant, well, you really get a better perspective of what tall means.

And for those who don’t know, Muresan is a hall of famer [in Romania that is. Seriously.] and a movie star [If "My Giant" is your favorite movie].

Quickly Reflecting On The Short Journey Here

road signIn a month I’ll be turning 33, and I have no idea what happened to the first 32 years. I had a plan, I’m sure, but somewhere along the way, I started to have fun. They say time flies when you’re having fun, but d@mn! I knew where I wanted to be at this point when I was younger, but I can confidently say, I’m not there. In the past 32 years, I made a lot of decisions that weren’t conducive to achieving my goals, but I will say from those decisions and the people I’ve met and the experiences I’ve had, I’m actually closer to achieving my goals than I ever was.

From birth to 17, well, those were the days when the only real responsibility I had was making sure the dishes were washed each night, when I got older of course. I dreamed of being a journalist. Ideally, I would be the editor in chief of the Washington Post. While others admired Michael Jordan [We were in ACC basketball country and I, too, bleed Tar Heel Blue], the many Hollywood celebrities or whomever, I admired Woodward and Bernstein.

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Getting Jiggy With Vincent Orange

Vincent OrangeDevin Johnson and I went out to Love the Club to celebrate the 50th birthday of former DC Councilmember Vincent Orange. And one of the things we kept saying was this is how you throw a 50th birthday party!

St. Patrick’s Day Parade in Washington DC

Just a few photos from the St. Patrick’s Day Parade in Washington, DC…

Bagpipers at the St. Patrick's Day Parade in Washington DC

Bagpipers at the St. Patrick's Day Parade in Washington DC

Bagpipers at the St. Patrick's Day Parade in Washington DC
Washington Divas — Female Tackle Football Team

Bagpipers at the St. Patrick's Day Parade in Washington DC

 

The Law of Cause and Effect

Everyday I talk with people and converse about what it is that they want to accomplish in life. Some want to travel the world. Some want to live in a mansion with three Benzes and a Bentley parked out front. Others want families and to be able to provide the world to their children. All want something that isn’t free. Me? I want my own private island.

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Category: Just Babbling

How Quickly They All Grow Up

Desmond and Jalen Carter at the National Zoo
Desmond Carter and his son Jalen at the National Zoo.

My homeboy from back in the day, Desmond Carter, came through with his son Jalen this weekend, and we headed out to one of my favorite places, the National Zoo. In the past few years, there has been some new additions to the zoo, and I’m not just talking about the new Asia Trail.

There’s a new panda in the house [I mean exhibit], a new sloth bear or two and some tiger cubs. But they’re not all small and cuddly anymore. In no time all the new babies have all grown up.

It wasn’t all that long ago that Jalen was running around causing havoc in his diapers. And now, well, at least he’s out of his diapers.

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Snyder Steady Building His Empire

Daniel Snyder just can’t help but to spend all that money! Without a Santa Claus-sized list of free agents with both hands out for money, Daniel Snyder is going to spend his money elsewhere. First the Washington Redskins then Six Flags then his own personal radio stations then Tom Cruise then Johnny Rockets and now a private-equity fund known as Red Zone Capital Partners II.

I guess when you’ve made your millions by the age of 35, you can spend your money wherever you want. And Snyder is going to spend it to make more of it to spend more of it. He has assembled a Pro Bowl caliber team of experienced managers from different backgrounds to dive head first into another venture designed to simply keeping the multiple streams of income coming.

Photos of DC Under Snow

U.S. Capitol Building

One of the reasons I love living in Washington, DC, is I finally get to experience four seasons. Living in the south, we would get flurries, enough to shut down the city but not enough to make a snowman!

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