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African Proverbs of Love and Marriage

Collection of African proverbs about love and marriage, dedicated to my ladies, Nduku and Najwa…

I love you

Love doesn’t rely on physical features.

— Lesotho Proverb

Where there is love there is no darkness.

— Burundian Proverb

It’s better to fall from a tree and a break your back than to fall in love and break your heart.

— African Proverb

Love has to be shown by deeds not words.

— Kenyan Proverb

When one is in love, a cliff becomes a meadow.

— Ethiopian Proverb

He who doesn’t feel jealousy is not in love.

— African Proverb

A letter from the heart can be read on the face.

— Kenyan Proverb

Let your love be like the misty rain, coming softly, but flooding the river.

— Liberian & Madagascan Proverb

If love is a sickness, patience is the remedy.

— Cameroonian Proverb

He may say that he loves you, wait and see what he does for you.

— Senegalese Proverb

I love you

The best part of happiness lies is in the secret heart of a lover.

— Ugandan Proverb

Love is a despot who spares no one.

— Namibian Proverb

Many little things make a man love a woman in a big way.

— Ghanaian Proverb

A woman is a flower in a garden; her husband is the fence around it.

— Ghanaian Proverb

He who loves, loves you with your dirt.

— Ugandan Proverb

The buttocks are like a married couple though there is constant friction between them; they will still love and live together.

— African Proverb

An Ode To Nduku Malombe — The Video

One of my homeboys told me that posting all this “crap” about my girl was annoying. Wait until he sees this…


[The music is Charles Cameron's "I'll Never Stop Loving You" from Darius and Nina's first date in Love Jones]

I Love This Woman

Something about Nduku’s smile…

I love Nduku Malombe

I love Nduku Malombe

I love Nduku Malombe

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Sunshine (Dedication to Najwa and Nduku)

Initially I was simply looking to capture this moment in time by piecing together some videos of Najwa. Then I had this idea that maybe I could figure out how to add some music to the video — considering Najwa doesn’t really say much anyway. Then what if I sprinkled in a few pictures here and there of Najwa between the video clips?

Figuring that out was the easy part. The hard part was which of the hundreds of hundreds of pictures of Najwa do I use? The video was turning into the story of Najwa from birth to just shy of 10 months old. And as I was putting on the finishing touches, how could I do a biography on Najwa without her mother Nduku!?

Now, I had thousands more pictures to choose from! I started to look for a much longer song, but L!ssen’s live version of “Sunshine” said exactly what I was saying with the photos. And of course the soundtrack had to be go go…


Najwa Gaines

 

So Much Said In So Few Words

Nduku Malombe and Maureen Ndoto
Nduku and her roommate Maureen

Three days had passed since I first met this stunning girl at the movies. Instantly she caught my attention, yet for whatever reason, she said nothing to me — so I said nothing to her.

But my curiosity was too intense for me to just let it be. The only issue was that I had no idea, whatsoever, of how I was going to get in touch with her again.

Other than simply asking her roommate about, well, her roommate, I was at a lost. Since we said virutally nothing at all to each other at the movies, I couldn’t even remember her name. She said it so fast, with her proper English/African accent, and her name isn’t common [not in this hemisphere anyway].

Seriously, I wasn’t even sure if she said her name at all!

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The Culmination of a Series of What Ifs

It’s intimidating how delicate life is. Every single choice we make yields a result. Every single decision we make, no matter how small the detail, serves a role in how life unfolds. Every single insignificant moment has consequences, but the bliss of ignorance spares us the devastating realization of what could’ve been.

U Street MetroThere I stood, in the rain, at the bus stop, at the 13th Street exit to the U Street Metro station; it’s dark, chilly, a bit windy; but the only thing I could focus on was the car pulling up. Behind the steering wheel was Nduku Malombe, and right then I knew, once I stepped into the car, we would be embarking on a journey that almost never happened.

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